Observing the Digital Sabbath
Lately I’ve been toying with the idea of adopting a —a weekly day of rest, abstaining from certain technologies, namely online communication.
A confluence of circumstances has led me to this conclusion. The first is that, in an example of the way my work life occasionally complements my personal life quite neatly, I’ve recently fact-checked an article about the digital sabbath, and the health benefits—both physical and mental—of spending less time in front of a screen, whether it’s a computer, iPhone, or television. Despite spending a lot of time in front of all three, I hadn’t heard the idea described as a secular/digital sabbath until I worked on this article, nor did I realize there’s a whole movement of experimenting with the idea and, while openly acknowledging the irony, blogging their progress and results.
I guess I’m throwing my hat into that ring, timidly and well behind the curve. Really I just want my life back. I want to spend the last hour before I go to bed reading words on paper instead of surfing the internet or watching a television show. (It’s now that staring at a screen right before bedtime makes for shitty sleep.) I want to spend my late afternoons running or playing music or making dinner instead of surfing the internet or watching television. I want to spend my lunch break at work reading a magazine instead of my Google Reader feeds. I’ve only read three books all the way through in 2009, and that’s only if you count my 2008 tax return as a book, and I really only skimmed that. I’ve written in my journal—my personal, offline journal, not my blog—maybe three times.
Another irony of all this is that, while I’m spending more time than ever in front of a computer, the substance and quality of that time has suffered—the Word file where I keep the aforementioned journal hasn’t been opened in weeks, and this very blog just went ten days without an update. This doesn’t augur well for someone who’s soon going to be teaching a class about how to best prevent that lapse in blog content.
I mostly blame . I understand its value, and I appreciate it, and I’m glad I use it, and I glean lots of important things from it in ways I don’t yet understand. But sometimes I think … Fuck you, Twitter. I’m not going to read 200 tweets when I could be reading a book. I’m not going to tell the Twitterati I’m waiting at the doctor’s office, because really, the Twitterati don’t care.
But I also blame Google. And Facebook. And , and , and , and , and , and even the , sometimes. I understand that it’s not their fault—they’re not forcing me to become addicted to them. They’re just out there, online content that’s mine to consume or ignore. And they are all valuable, in moderation, especially local online media. I’m not such an old-timer or Luddite that I don’t recognize how the internet has now evolved to a point where it possesses real intrinsic value and substance. It’s not the agent of my addiction that’s the problem; it’s my own behavior. At its most fundamental level, I think it’s just a matter of making a conscious choice to pick up a book instead of my laptop. My default morning behavior now is to sit down in front of Google Reader, and it seems to start the day off on the wrong note.
I have fond memories of mornings in college spent reading a book or just sitting and listening to music, of days when I would only check my email three or four times rather than thirty, of stories told in person rather than on my blog (though in all fairness, I’ve told some pretty kickass stories on this blog). That seems to me like time better spent.
With that in mind, I’m calling on my small but wise readership for help. (That’s right—I’m enlisting the internet for help in my battle with the internet.) How do you avoid online overconsumption, to the extent that you do? Or is it not really a concern? I am consistently impressed by (and envious of) my online friends who seem to have a robust online presence with which they chronicle their equally healthy offline lives. Not to single anyone out, but seems especially good at maintaining a regular blog, plus Tumblr, Twitter, et cetera while also doing normal human things like making dinner, reading books, attending movies, and having a full-time job. What’s your secret, Dan?
Also, which day would be best for instituting a secular sabbath? I’m thinking Saturday or Sunday, for obvious reasons. Saturdays in the spring are perfect for exercising, walking, riding my bike, taking pictures, and hanging out with my friends, which is why I’m that much angrier with myself when I spend them indoors watching Hulu. It almost seems like Sundays are more crucial for online activity since, much like Sundays were big homework days in college, they are crucial days for freelancers who need to get prepared for the coming week. So Saturday will probably be my sabbath rather than Sunday. (With apologies to my Catholic mother, since in this respect it looks like I’m converting to Judaism.)
Share your wisdom on the subject in the comments, or email it to me. I’ll feverishly check my inbox every five minutes to see if anyone’s responded, which should in no way interfere with my resolution to be less dependent on online connectivity. Right?
Posted: February 18th, 2009 under General.
Comments: 7
Comments
Comment from Jodi
Time: 18 February 2009, 21:32
1. Make friends with “Mark all as read” — you aren’t going to miss anything. If something is THAT good, someone will tell you about. Has anyone ever been impressed by the fact that you saw something online first? No, never. Ever.
2. No TVs or computers in the bedroom (this guarantees that I read before bed), make reading a part of your bedtime ritual.
3. The internet will not disappear when you’re not looking. It’s always on, it will be there when you get back
4. Be vigilant in what give your attention to — this is one I’ve only recently learned since taking a job as blogger. If someone I follow on Twitter fails to amuse me, I stop following them. If a blog post doesn’t get me in the first sentence, I move on.
Of course, I do not have much of an offline life, so take it all with a grain of salt.
Comment from stefanie
Time: 18 February 2009, 22:32
I assume you have an iphone, so this is probably useless advice, but I recently removed web access from my Samsung, and life has been markedly better since. I also try not to avoid engagement with the world around me as I walk to work, walk downtown, etc while glued to my ipod. This time is also crucial in my question to be alone with my own thoughts several times per day and fulfills my need for ‘alone time’. in general if I feel over-scheduled However, when I ride the bus, the ipod offers a great escape from the usual question, “hey girl, where do you stay at?”.
Comment from mrp
Time: 19 February 2009, 02:33
When I was back in Iowa, I did a week of reading deprivation. I also refrained from television and internet. It was crazy. I would finish dinner with my parents, then think, um, now what? It’s so strange how we’re so used to insulating ourselves from the millions new and unique experiences we could be having by the filter that is the internet, television, and other writers. My dreams got markedly more vivid, instantly. My strings of thought would expand, ideas that would usually be interrupted after mere seconds of entertaining would unravel slowly. I realized that the ability to control my attention has a direct impact on the quality of my existence and my general happiness. I can say that for the most part, my laptop/the internet makes me a less productive, less happy, less interesting/interested person. Experiential apocrypha.
Comment from Kate
Time: 19 February 2009, 10:07
My new(ish) policy of having a daily to-do list has helped a lot with digital distractions. This list contains everything (not just boring tasks) that I hope to get done on a given day; now, when I get the urge to check facebook for the tenth time, I look at my list and acknowledge, “Yes, that’s right – I’d actually rather be cooking (or exercising, or interacting with people).” Also, based on Dan (and Alison’s) success with reading prodigious amounts of books, I set myself a goal to read 50 books this year. The simple existence of this goal has made me a lot more conscious of the amount I have yet to read.
I guess I’m a bit of a Luddite, too: I don’t have an iPhone, or anything beyond basic cable (what we Midwesterners call “broadcast”). I do have Netflix, but I enjoy it in moderation. And the only substantial time I spend online is when I’m at my part-time desk job (like right now!).
Comment from Jake
Time: 19 February 2009, 13:07
These are all really good ideas, and I will probably adopt all of them in some fashion (except the computer outside the bedroom idea, which the strange layout of my apartment doesn’t really permit).
Mark, your idea sounds especially intriguing, and also a little scary. Equally scary is the idea that I’ve gotten to the point where the prospect of being alone with my thoughts is, itself, scary. Maybe that’s why I never meditate anymore.
My first digital sabbath is going to be this Saturday. I’m giddy about it, even as I am dreading it.
Comment from Philip James Hart
Time: 20 February 2009, 13:28
I’m not usually one to give advice to a thirty-two-year-old man, and today is no exception.
Comment from Dan
Time: 20 February 2009, 14:30
Excellent post, Jake. You don’t know how often I wrestle with the same things you wrestle with. I’m glad you mentioned me as a balanced individual. I’m going to (haha) write a blog post about this, replying to your initial concerns and ideas.
By the way, I’ve done a lot to change my habits over the years, but I’ve never considered a digital sabbath. That was a great idea!
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